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PTSD
post-traumatic stress disorder is a normal
emotional and psychological reaction to trauma (a painful, shocking experience
such as rape, war or a natural disaster) that is outside of a person's normal
life experiences.
Anyone who experiences a traumatic event can
suffer from PTSD. PTSD can affect survivors of war, violent attacks, rape, car
or plane accidents and natural disasters and can also affect people who witness
these events.
Symptoms of PTSD include recurrent memories or
flashbacks of the trauma, nightmares, insomnia and/or lack of interest in family,
friends or hobbies. They may suffer from depression. They may also suffer
from survivor guilt, have overwhelming emotions, and be irritable or jumpy.
rape trauma syndrome
Immediate reactions after a rape may vary. Some
rape survivors remain controlled, numb, in shock, denial disbelief. They present a
flat affect, quiet, reserved, and have difficulties expressing themselves. Other
rape survivors respond quite differently - being very expressive and verbalizing
feelings of sadness or anger. They may appear distraught or anxious and may even
express rage or hostility against the medical staff attempting to care for them.
Various factors may aid or inhibit the
survivors ability to resolve the issues associated by the rape. Positive
feelings of self-esteem, good support systems, previous success in dealing with
crisis and economic security all enhance her ability to heal. Survivors who can
minimize, (deal with one small segment of the problem at a time ) often find
success. Certainly survivors moved to action gain confidence as they implement
decisions. But survivors who suffer with chronic stress, lack of support systems
and prior victimization struggle less successfully to resolve their issues.
Negative self-esteem often hinders their progress and paralyze their efforts.
These victims often use maladaptive methods to deal with their stress. These
factors hamper their ability to resolve the issues of the rape and move beyond
it.
Rape victims can suffer a significant degree of
physical and emotional trauma during the rape, immediately following the rape
and over a considerable time period after the rape. A study of rape victims has
identified a three-stage process, or syndrome, that occurs as a result of
forcible rape or attempted forcible rape. This syndrome is an acute stress
reaction to a life-threatening situation that can last from two years to a
lifetime. It is also often known as rape trauma syndrome or rape
related post traumatic stress disorder, rrpstd.
The acute phase begins immediately and lasts up
to several days after the attack. The survivor feels violated and fearful and
may be depressed—even suicidal. The victim struggles with feelings of loss of
control and may note changes in appetite, sleep habits or social functions.
Survivors may note change in their sexual patterns at this time.
The Acute Stage:
This stage occurs immediately after the assault. It may last a few days to
several weeks. During this stage the victim may:
- seem agitated or hysterical or s/he may
appear totally calm (a slogan that s/he could be in shock).
- have crying spells and anxiety attacks.
- have difficulty concentrating, making
decisions, and dolling simple, everyday tasks.
- show little emotion, act as though numb or
stunned.
- have poor recall of the rape or other
memories.
In the second stage, it seems that survivors
begin to resolve their issues. This stage is also called the "flight to
health." But denial frequently masks the under lying problems as
survivors make an effort to re-establish the routines of their life and bring
back some semblance of control. Sometimes, in an effort to feel back in
control, rape victims make dramatic changes in lifestyle or environment. They
may quit a long-standing job or move to a new location to get a fresh start.
They may dramatically change their appearance; cut their hair or perhaps
change the colour. None of the changes brings about the security they search
for as nightmares and phobias emerge. They work hard to suppress the feelings
because dealing with them is so very painful.
The Outward
Adjustment Stage: During this stage
the victim resumes what appears to be from the outside her/his
"normal" life. Inside, however, there is considerable turmoil which
can manifest itself by any of the following behaviours:
- continuing anxiety.
- sense of helplessness.
- persistent fear and/or depression.
- severe mood swings (e.g. happy to angry,
etc.).
- vivid dreams, recurrent nightmares,
insomnia.
- physical ailments.
- appetite disturbances (e.g. nausea,
vomiting, compulsive eating).
- efforts to deny the assault ever took
place and/or to minimize its impact.
- withdrawal from friends and/or relatives.
- preoccupation with personal safety.
- reluctance to leave the house and/or to go
places which remind the victim of the rape.
- hesitation about forming new relationships
with men and/or distrustful or existing relationship.
- sexual problems.
- disruption of normal everyday routines
(e.g. high absenteeism at work suddenly or, conversely, working longer
than usual hours; dropping out of school; travelling different routes;
going out only at certain times).
But the feelings do not go away as easily as before. Their re-surfacing
introduces the third stage of the rape trauma syndrome. The client no longer
denies the issues; she/he may want to talk about what happened. The client
finds themselves more willing to accept counselling and get in touch with the
feelings and emotions associated with the rape. Survivors may feel overwhelmed
as they attempt to deal with feelings they struggled to suppress since the
assault. Often some sensory stimulation triggers memories that call to mind
the sexual assault. Suddenly the survivor seems to be re-living the trauma as
the rape comes to life again. Nightmares, phobias, depression, reoccurring
thoughts and sexual dysfunction monopolize her thoughts. She / he feels anxious to
talk about it; to deal with it and is ready to seek therapy although she may
not understand why the issues surface at that time. The stages are not linear
and can vary as the victim works their way through. Survivors find themselves
taking one step forward and two back as they vacillate between stages and labour
to find their way.
The Resolution Stage:
During this stage the rape is no longer the central focus in the victim's
life. The victim begins to recognize that while s/he will never forget the
assault, the pain and memories associated with it are lessening. S/he has
accepted the rape as a part of her/his life experience and is choosing to move
on from there. Some of the behaviours of the second stage may flare up at times
but they do so less frequently and with less intensity. In this fashion the
person who has survived has moved from being a " victim" to a
"survivor".
While some survivors move forward and take
control of their lives, other continue to suffer and may even develop post
traumatic stress disorder ( rape trauma syndrome ) as result of the rape. They struggle with reoccurring
thoughts about the trauma and find themselves in a state of hyper vigilance;
easily startled and always anticipating another attack. Nightmares, flashbacks,
and sleep disturbances disrupt their lives. Constant efforts to avoid the
memories of trauma literally control their existence. Some rape survivors have
post-traumatic stress disorder for years and need continuous counselling and
support.
Recovery Takes Time
Survivors recover in stages. They may start
with one stage, go to another, and go back. Each person processes the event his
or her / his own way. Survivors are not to blame for the crime committed to them by
another person. We cannot control the actions of another person. Survivors need
a safe environment to work through their fears. You can help by providing the
survivor with pace and time to recover.
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