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other male abuse survivors stories.
current total 7 stories

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If you are an abuse survivor.. then its ok to read on

Sadly when the site was moved, many of the 48 stories we had in starman's section were deleted by an admin of another site... we are trying to get them back soon tho but we still have some to add here..

If you would like to add your story to help other male survivors show that they are not alone ... please click here for instructions on how to add it... you will be told ways to add it anon if you want .. this may help you by writing it and knowing that it will help other male survivors feel less isolated.

Some of these stories may be triggering but are not graphic
some splats have been added, but not many

Bob's story

I am 52 years old, and only in the past 3 years, after a divorce from a marriage of 25 years, alienation of my own sons, a nervous breakdown resulting in a 5 day hospital admission, 6 months of counseling, and 3 years of prayer, study, reflection, and insight, have I been able to "put my life together" and realize why I've done what I've done.....

Bill's story

Hi my name is Bill and I am from the British Isles. I'm in my late 20's and married with one small daughter.

When I was young my dad use to hit me a lot, and I was not allowed to play out with other kids very much. I have one brother who is 8 years older than me, and .................

David's story

My memories of the first two years of my life are quite happy. I lived in Europe with my parents and nothing special happened - at least that I can recall. Then my father died in a car accident. I don't remember that time very clearly, I just know that my mother remarried soon after......

Luke's Story

Please excuse the spelling. I was jilted remembering this.
Please list my name as Luke.

I was raped. I am male.
It seems often like an oxymoron.

I was not molested, I was 19 when it happened. It's not something I like to think about. But it is important that men know that adult men can be raped.

Steve's story (from the USA)

My story is allot like all the others. Painful to deal with. It all started out when the next door neighbor was baby sitting me when I was 5 years of age. At that time I had no knowledge of what was going on.....

A Survivor's Story from the Toronto, Canada

Hi. I am a 24-year old man living in Toronto, Canada.

My story of molestation was unknown to absolutely everyone. I guess that the only way I could deal with it was through denial - not denying the incident occurred, but not believing that it had an impact on my life and influenced my behavioral patterns......

Thomas's story

My name is Thomas and I am now 27 years old. I have never told anyone my story until now. Memories that I thought I had buried and forgotten are beginning to surface, in my dreams, in certain things that people do, or even just a door opening. Now I will take the first step and turn around and face my past by writing this to you.