Abused Empowered Survive Thrive 

 

adult sexual abuse survivor help
Supporting survivors of sexual abuse since March 1997
(starman_uk's first site)
Abused empowered survive thrive Incorporating 
starman_uk's recovery site; abuse recovery uk (ARUK) ; abuse survivors united (ASU); 
abuse survivors UK (ASUK) and male survivors uk (MSUK)
 

 
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This page was last updated on Friday, March 17, 2006 02:13 PM GMT

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March  2006

 

Chat server updated and 3 extra rooms added.
Several help line numbers updated and new ones added
Work started on expanding the main site although not visible to the public yet.

 

 

Jan  2006

 

Main forum program updated to latest program release and security fixes.
2 new forums added

 

 

Nov  2005

 

Main forum program updated to latest program release and security fixes.
4 new moderators added to the forums

 

 

September  2005

 

Several help line numbers updated, and lines that have closed removed.

 

 

April 2005

  5 new sub forums added
several new help  line listings added.
 
 

 

March 2005

  Main forum program updated to a better forum program  
 

 

Jan 2005

 

The Chat Server has been updated and improved.

 

 

November 2004

 

 due to requests from members, 8 new forums added.

 

October 2004

 

 help lines listings updated

several new forums added.

 

September 2004

 

USA help lines listings started ... been added to each week.

 

 

June 2004

 

Various help lines added and articles updated

 

 

March 2004

 

We now have 9 chat rooms on a private (1000 user) chat server and are also able to offer our level2 users access to a private "yahoo" style messenger server with chat room access. 

Myths and facts about male rape (1st draft) added 
 USA Amazon shop added 

 

 

February 2004

 

Why do abuse survivors often suffer from panic attacks 
UK amazon shop added
  Several new forums added to the survivors forums

 

January 2004

 

Survivors help lines in Ireland added
 New chat server in test mode
Partners forum added

 

 

December 2003

 

Survivors help lines in Scotland added.
Latest security updates to forums program
Two new research listings on male abuse added http://www.aest.org.uk/research_papers_statistics/male_survivors.shtml
UK help lines updated  UK survivor help lines and males help lines.

 

November 2003

 

 The site is now located at http://www.aest.org.uk
 
Abuse Not ( Dunfermline ~ Scotland ) added to UK survivor help lines and males help lines.

 

October 2003

 

Life Centre ~ Chichester ~ West Sussex added to uk help lines  both male and female
UK survivor and male survivor help lines updated

 

September 2003

 

Peer support forums reopened to past members.
The Invisible Boy 
Several new help line numbers added.

 

 

August 2003

 

Data, research papers and statistics etc pages moved and partly expanded (more to follow).
Help line and real life support groups section
expanded / updated. Australian details also added 

 

June 2003

 

Data, research papers and statistics etc added/started with 28 links (50+ links still to add)
with link tracking and rating of the articles. If this page is used then it will be extended and categorised.  

when the abuser is a female
added / started.
UK male survivor help lines added - and updated
UK self harm help lines added.

 

May 2003

 

It has been a long time since the last update due to ill health, but we now have an new admin member . Please give them time to catch up on how the site is put together.

The forums and chat rooms are currently off-line but been worked on.
External links in frames repaired.
9 new listings in UK s
urvivor help lines.

 

 

 

October 2002

 

 Some basic questions and answers on inner child work added to inner child section
 How can I find my inner child ?
  (by Twilight) added to inner child section

 

 

September 2002

 

Ideas for people who don?t like their inner child (by Twilight) added to innerchild section
Books on and for inner child work
added to innerchild section
How to help keep your inner child feeling safe
 
(by Twilight) added to innerchild section
Ideas to Help Your Little Feel Loved and Wanted
 
(by Twilight) added to innerchild section
Main forum program updated to latest program release and security fixes.
Gay Males forum subset added.
Female Secure forum sub set added for long term users.

 

May  2002

 

Main forum program updated to latest program release and security fixes.

 

 

April 2002

 

how to help partners with eating problems added to partners section.
Articles "self-defeating mind games we all play" 
survivors section (partly still under construction)

Site map set to auto update once per day
Latest security fixes added to all main forums.
Main chat server reinstalled with new indicators.
Debating forum added to main forum set

Why did I not tell when I was older ...
added to guilt/self blame section
Work started on females tell your own story sub section
Open general forum added to provide a backup forum
Famous survivors added to survivors section.
News group list added to survivors section.
Backup chat server changed.
What is self harm? added to self harm section.
Electronic postcards added to main index page.
AEST Web Mail added to main index page.
Recommend this site box added to main Index page.
Anon contact form added to tell your own story.
(males section)

 

 

March 2002

 

Added guest book to main home page.
Started to add the articles on FMS. (in survivors section)
Male survivors external links index started.
Female survivors external links started.
Survivors section external links started.
Male survivors own stories started... 7 stories added
Put new consistent color scheme throughout the site... well almost
Most of the main sub menu systems have been changed to incorporate a full side menu on each sub index page. This is to enable better navigation of the site and also allow for greater expansion of each sub section in the near future. Rest of the sub menus will be updated ASAP.
Anon guilt self blame forum added to main forum set.
Self harm sub section started.
New backup chat room and main chat rooms added.
All main forum sets upgraded to sp1 to enable greater stability and extra security feature modifications have also been installed, as well as advanced admin functions and several other modifications to the basic forum program.

 

 

 
     
 

 

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