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Desiderata

 

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Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste and remember
what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without
surrender be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to
others, even the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious
to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others, you may become
vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser
persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as
your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise
caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons
strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and 
disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully
surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit
to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself
with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.


You are a child of the universe; no less than the
trees and the stars, you have a right to be here.


And whether or not it's clear to you, no doubt the universe
is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever
you conceive God to be; and whatever your labours and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it's still
a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

 

Max Ehrman, 1927.
Found in Old Saint Paul's Church, Baltimore, U.S.A. Dated 1692

From the Alt.Usage.English FAQ: "Desiderata" was written in 1927 by Max Ehrmann (1872-1945). In 1956, the rector of St. Paul's Church in Baltimore, Maryland, used the poem in a collection of mimeographed inspirational material for his congregation. Someone who subsequently printed it asserted that it was found in Old St. Paul's Church, dated 1692. The year 1692 was the founding date of the church and has nothing to do with the poem.

 

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